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Melody
Jan 25th 2007, 04:41 PM
I like to think I'm pretty smart, even when I'm not....lol. Thought y'all might get a kick out of my embarassment yesterday.

The kid and his friends (ages 12-16) are looking at a sheet of stickers that has the logos of sports teams on them.

Now these boys think I'm pretty cool as Mama's go, because I let my kid swear IF there's no adults or small children within earshot, as in with his friends only, and I like my music loud, etc. Plus I've always fed the neighbourhood because I fuss about them being outside in the heat & all that (Icecream anyone?).

Most have grown up with me, even his classmates, because I always volunteered there. They're starting to discuss their more 'teenage' concerns with me - life is good. Hang out here, I know you're safe, I don't care if it costs me $500/month to feed your teenage guts....lol.

So I go out to distribute a round of juice boxes because some of them had just come home from a basketball game and the neighbourhood Mommy thinks they should rehydrate <sheepish grin>. I spot the stickers and say "Where did you get the team stickers? They're all there <pointing> Boston Bruins, Montreal Canadiens <complete with proper French pronounciation>...."

There was a pause, silence. They're nice, respectful boys U C, and nobody wanted to say anything. Finally the kid says ...

"Um... Mom? They're football teams."

Doooooowwwnnn went my rating on the cool scale.... :Blush: . I am SUCH a GIRL!

Pamelajo
Jan 25th 2007, 04:49 PM
:laugh:
I am sure they will let that one slide.

Melody
Jan 25th 2007, 05:03 PM
You would have been proud of me Pam - I covered my mistake! I gave 'em the ol' "I was just testin' ya!" reply.

Lots of eye rolling but I'm sure they bought it. ;)

First yard party with chips, icecream and tunes and I'm back in, I figure...lol.

Pamelajo
Jan 25th 2007, 05:14 PM
Yep that will definitely work.

Pamelajo
Jan 25th 2007, 05:24 PM
Pretty soon you have the girlfriends showing up. My daughter has had her first serious boyfriend over a couple of times now.

Melody
Jan 25th 2007, 05:30 PM
Its funny, even on Halloween night I had girls asking if he was still home. Girls mature more quickly in that respect of course, so they're having their crushes. He couldn't be bothered at this point.

He expresses enough interest in the hollywood stars and girls in general so I know he has 'Red-blooded Canadian appetites"...lol...but women still scare the hellouta him overall. Maybe they never get over that. Maybe they shouldn't. :rofl:

It must be very difficult to let your little girl go wandering off with the wolves though - I feel for ya.

Pamelajo
Jan 25th 2007, 05:48 PM
The guy she dated before this one she got rid of because he expected her to come over everyday. Which is not always possible when we are three towns away.
This one seems really nice. Has to be home by a certain time and parents have to know where they are etc.

Melody
Jan 25th 2007, 06:10 PM
That's always good. Then you're not the anal parent, you're just a parent that is as anal as his are :laugh: .